How I Tick

I know that many have varying opinions on spanking and many who are unfamiliar to the idea have speculated.

I have learned that to each their own and one persons reasons for spanking, needing to be spanked etc. all differ greatly. Some use it as foreplay, sex-play, role-play, discipline and so on and on and on...

Mike and I use spanking for discipline only and or stress relief for me.
Does being spanked turn me on? No
Does spanking me turn Mike on? Sometimes
Does being threatened with a spanking turn me on? Sometimes
Do I want to be spanked? Sometimes

It is all very complicated to some degree especially when spanking is used for discipline. Sometimes it's cut and dry, I break an agreed upon rule and I get spanked...simple. There's nothing sexy about that or erotic...

Switch gears a little and let me paint this picture:

Let's say I am being a bit of a smart ass (hard for even me to imagine :))
Let's say Mike is in an easy going mood and takes it lightly and we begin to playfully banter back and forth.
For example sake, let's say Mike feels the banter could be going too far and I could be crossing the line on disrespect...
He might say something like (Cool it Mandy otherwise I can easily take you across my lap and spank that ass) (Cautiously this could be a turn on) Some of you may relate and others may not...it's simply how I tick.

There's something about his dominance that is extremely attractive to me...knowing that he is willing and able to rein me in if needed, in any situation is a turn on for "me." Notice I said ME. Not everyone responds the same and not every time do I even respond the same. Sometimes his little warnings aggravate me, other times they fall on deaf ears and I do end up across his lap...those times are NOT in anyway a turn on to me. His dominance is a turn on, to me it's sexy. To me, it's about his disposition and the way he carries himself as a dominant male that I find sexy, not being spanked.

Others are very aroused with being spanked and that's fine too, however because Mike uses spanking as a form of discipline he chose to not incorporate "fun", erotic, or play type spankings for the purpose confusing the two. In all honesty, I have never been spanked in a fun playful way so I wouldn't know if that type of spanking would be arousing to me or not.

My point is that there are different strokes for different folks and what works for some may not not for others. The way we use spanking works for us although I thoroughly enjoying reading all types of blogs and hearing their stories as well...even the ones who's stories differ greatly from ours.

Either way...happy spanking! (or not) :)


Mandy